Moving into a retirement community can be a significant decision for couples, especially when one partner requires more support or medical attention than the other. For many couples, staying together is a top priority, but they also need the assurance that personalized care will be available as needed.
At Lanark Lifestyles, a unique retirement and luxury apartment living complex, couples find various options that allow them to remain connected while meeting their individual care needs.
Balancing Independence and Support
According to Lorel Brennan, Senior Living Advisor at Lanark Lifestyles, it’s not uncommon for couples to seek arrangements where one partner receives additional care while the other continues to live independently.
“We often see situations where one partner experiences caregiver burnout and needs a setting where they can remain close but are no longer the sole caregiver,” Lorel explains.
In these cases, Lanark Lifestyles offers flexible living arrangements, including two-bedroom suites that are designed to keep couples together in the same residence, or for those who prefer, options where one partner resides in an independent suite while the other receives more hands-on assistance on the mindful care floor.
The availability of these two-bedroom or one-bedroom-plus-den suites makes it possible for couples to maintain their lifestyle preferences. Whether in the same suite or in adjacent floors with easy access to each other, couples can stay connected while ensuring each individual’s care needs are fully met.
Personalized Care Plans for Each Resident
Understanding that each resident’s needs vary, Lanark Lifestyles takes a personalized approach to care plans.
“We personalize every care plan to each resident’s needs. For instance, some are completely independent but may need medication management,” Lorel notes.
The focus remains on the individual, with care plans that accommodate each resident without assuming a one-size-fits-all approach for couples. This personalization enables Lanark Lifestyles to support the more independent partner in living freely while ensuring that the partner requiring care receives the attention they need.
Ensuring Emotional and Social Connection
Even when one partner requires more medical attention, Lanark Lifestyles emphasizes maintaining a strong emotional connection between couples.
“We arrange for couples to sit together in the dining room and provide several spaces for families to enjoy together, like a private dining room that can be reserved for family gatherings,” Lorel shares.
In addition, there’s a party room that can be reserved free of charge, allowing couples to host loved ones in a familiar, comfortable setting.
The bistro, open 24 hours a day, serves as a social hub where residents can enjoy refreshments and snacks at any time. These amenities allow couples to share meals, socialize, and remain active parts of each other’s lives, even when one partner may have additional care needs.
Social Engagement and Wellness Activities
An active, engaging environment where both partners, regardless of their care needs, can participate in the community is essential to not only each partner’s well-being independently, but also collectively.
Lanark Lifestyles offers amenities like a saltwater pool and pickleball court, among other features, which allow residents to pursue individual interests, and stay active.
Additionally, the wellness team and life enrichment manager work to encourage participation in various activities, helping to foster a sense of belonging and community.
This approach not only benefits the individual residents but also strengthens the bond between partners, giving them shared experiences within their retirement community.
A Safe and Accessible Living Environment
Safety and accessibility are key considerations in all Lanark Lifestyles suites. The suites feature accessible showers with grab bars and push-button assistance, avoiding bathtubs, which can be challenging for those with limited mobility.
Designed with wider hallways and larger bathrooms, these suites provide a secure and comfortable environment for residents. For those needing memory care, Lanark Lifestyles even incorporates specialized lighting to create a calming, supportive setting.
Fostering a Homelike Atmosphere
Creating a comfortable, homelike atmosphere should be a focus at a retirement home or community, helping new residents acclimate to their surroundings more easily. Lanark Lifestyles’ community is built around a people-first philosophy, where residents and staff interact with warmth and positivity.
Lorel notes, “We strive for a friendly, uplifting atmosphere that not only benefits our residents but also supports our employees, allowing that positive energy to filter through to everyone in the community.”
Family Involvement and Open Communication
When one partner’s care needs evolve, Lanark Lifestyles makes sure families are involved every step of the way. Care plans are reviewed every six months in consultation with the wellness team, ensuring that the family’s input is included. “We maintain an open-door policy with our executive director and director of care, so families always have access to discuss concerns or changes in their loved one’s care,” Lorel explains.
This proactive communication helps family members stay connected to their loved ones’ journey, fostering trust and transparency in care.
For couples navigating the challenges of aging and differing health needs, Lanark Lifestyles offers a solution that balances independence, personal care, and connection. The thoughtfully designed suites, personalized care plans, and robust amenities create a supportive environment where couples can remain together and families can feel confident in the quality of care their loved ones receive.
With an emphasis on community, accessibility, and family involvement, Lanark Lifestyles ensures that each resident feels at home, valued, and connected to their partner.
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